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মাহরাম কারা?

gvnivg wK? gvnivg Kv‡K e‡j?

‡h mKj cyi“‡li mvg‡b bvixi ‡`Lv ‡`Iqv,K_v ejv Rv‡qR Ges hv‡`i mv‡_ weevn eÜb m¤ú~Y© nvivg Zv‡`i ‡K kixq‡Zi cwifvlvq gvnivg e‡j|

gvnivg Kviv?

m~iv Avb b~‡ii 31 bs Avqv‡Z Avjøvn Zvqvjv bvixi gvnivg wba©vwiZ K‡i w`‡q‡Qb|

c~Y© AvqvZ wU nj -

"Avi gywgb bvix‡`i‡K e‡j w`b, Zviv ‡hb Zv‡`i `…wó‡K mshZ iv‡L Ges Zv‡`i j¾v¯’v‡bi wndvhZ K‡i|

Avi hv mvaviYZ c«Kvk cvh় Zv QvW়v Zv‡`i ‡mŠ›`h© Zviv c«Kvk bv K‡i|

Zviv ‡hb Zv‡`i IW়bv w`h‡় e¶‡`k‡K Ave…Z K‡i iv‡L|

Avi Zviv ‡hb Zv‡`i ¯^vgx, wcZv, k¦ïi, wbR‡`i ‡Q‡j,

¯^vgxi ‡Q‡j, fvB, fvB-Gi ‡Q‡j,

‡ev‡bi ‡Q‡j, Avcb bvixMY, Zv‡`i Wvb nvZ hvi gvwjK nh‡়‡Q,

Aaxb¯’

‡hŠbKvgbvgy³ cyi“l A_ev bvix‡`i ‡Mvcb A½ m¤ú‡K© AÁ evjK QvW়v Kv‡iv Kv‡Q wb‡R‡`i ‡mŠ›`h© c«Kvk bv K‡i|

Avi Zviv ‡hb wb‡R‡`i ‡Mvcb ‡mŠ›`h© c«Kvk Kivi Rb¨ m‡Rv‡i c`PviYv bv K‡i|

‡n gywgbMY, ‡Zvgiv mK‡jB Avjøvni wbKU ZvIev Ki, hv‡Z ‡Zvgiv mdjKvg n‡Z cvi| (m~iv Avb-b~i:31)

e¯—yZ c`©vi ¸i“Z¡ eySvi Rb¨ GB GKwU AvqvZ B h‡_ó!

GB Avqv‡Z Avjøvn cvK wba©vib K‡i w`‡q‡Qb -

1. `…wó bZ ivL‡Z n‡e,

2. mg&å‡gi ‡ndvhZ Ki‡Z n‡e,

3. ci cyi“‡li mvg‡b ‡mŠ›`h© c«`k©b Kiv hv‡ebv,

4. Iobvi mwVK e¨envi,

5. bvixi gvnivg A_©vr bvix ïaygvÎ Kvi Kvi mvg‡b ‡h‡Z cvi‡e,

6. kvixwiK MVb hv‡Z eySv bv hvq Zvi Rb¨ bvixiv m‡Rv‡i nvuU‡ebv,axi MwZ‡Z-‡QvU c`‡¶‡c nvuU‡e,

7. fyj ekZt ‡Kvb ¸bvn n‡q ‡M‡j ZIev Ki‡Z n‡e|

Mvq‡i gvnivg wK?

‡h mKj cyi“‡li mvg‡b hvIqv bvixi Rb¨ kixq‡Z Rv‡qR bq Ges hv‡`i mv‡_ weevn eÜb ‰ea Zv‡`i ‡K Mvq‡i gvnivg e‡j|

e¯—yZt Mvq‡i gvniv‡gi mvg‡b GKvš— AcviM n‡q hw` hvIqvB jv‡M Z‡e bvix c~Y© c`©v K‡i mvg‡b hv‡e|

Mvq‡i gvnivg Kviv?

-gvnivg ev‡` mg¯— we‡k¦-gnvwe‡k¦ hZ cyi“l Av‡Q me Mvq‡i gvnivg!

wbR cwiev‡i

PvPvZ/LvjvZ/gvgvZ/dycvZ me fvB,

wbR `yjvfvB,

‡`ei,

fvmyi,

(Avcb,`v`v I bvbv k¦ïi ev‡`) mg¯— PvPv-gvgv-Lvjy-dycv k¦ïi...

wbR Lvjy/dycv Giv mevB Mvq‡i gvnivg!

Zv‡`i mvg‡b wb‡R‡K c«`k©b Kiv Avjøvni ûKy‡gi Aeva¨Zv Kiv!

gvnivg Qvov mKj cyi“‡li mvg‡b c`©v Ki‡Z n‡e Ges n‡eB...

GK bR‡i gvnivg cyi“l -

1. ¯^vgx

(‡`Lv ‡`Iqv,‡mŠ›`h© c«`k©‡bi ‡c«w¶‡Z gvnivg)

2. wcZv, `v`v, bvbv I Zv‡`i DaŸ©Zb cyi“lMY|

3. k¦ïi, Avcb `v`v I bvbv k¦ïi Ges Zv‡`i DaŸ©Zb cyi“lMY|

4. Avcb ‡Q‡j, ‡Q‡ji ‡Q‡j, ‡g‡qi ‡Q‡j I Zv‡`i JimRvZ cyÎ mš—vb Ges Avcb ‡g‡qi ¯^vgx|

5. ¯^vgxi Ab¨ ¯¿xi Mf©RvZ cyÎ|

6. Avcb fvB,mr fvB

7. fvwZRv A_©vr, Avcb fvB‡qi ‡Q‡j Ges mr fvB‡qi ‡Q‡j|

8. fv‡Mœ A_©vr, Avcb ‡ev‡bi ‡Q‡j Ges mr ‡ev‡bi ‡Q‡j|

9. Ggb evjK hvi gv‡S gwnjv‡`i c«wZ ‡Kvb AvKl©Y ‡bB| (m~iv b~i-31)

10. `ya m¤úK©xq wcZv, `v`v, bvbv, PvPv, gvgv Ges Zv‡`i DaŸ©Zb cyi“lMY|

11. `ya fvB, `ya fvB‡qi ‡Q‡j, `ya ‡ev‡bi ‡Q‡j Ges Zv‡`i JimRvZ ‡h ‡Kvb cyÎ mš—vb|

12. `ya m¤úK©xq ‡Q‡j, Zvi ‡Q‡j, `ya m¤úK©xq ‡g‡qi ‡Q‡j Ges Zv‡`i JimRvZ ‡h ‡Kvb cyÎ mš—vb| Ges `ya m¤úK©xq ‡g‡qi ¯^vgx| (eyLvix kixd nv`xm bs 5099, gymwjg kixd nv`xm bs 1144)

13. Avcb PvPv, mr PvPv|

14. Avcb gvgv,mr gvgv| (m~iv wbmv-23)

...............Dc‡iv³ cyi“l hv‡`i mv‡_ ‡`Lv Ki‡Z ev ‡`Lv w`‡Z cvi‡e Zviv Qvov Ab¨ mg¯— cyi“l ‡K ‡`Lv ‡`Iqv m¤ú~Y© bvRv‡qh Ges nvivg|

Avi Dc‡iv³ cyi“‡li mv‡_ we‡q m¤ú~Y© nvivg|

c`©v wK?

c`©vi cvwifvwlK msÁv nj -

Bmjvgx kixq‡Zi cwifvlvq,AkøxjZv I e¨wfPvi wbim‡bi j‡¶¨ bvix-cyi“l Df‡qiB Zv‡`i wbR wbR iƒc-jveY¨ I ‡mŠ›`h©‡K G‡K Aci ‡_‡K Avov‡j ivLvi Rb¨ Bmjv‡g ‡h we‡kl e¨e¯’v Aej¤^b Kivi wb‡`©k ‡`qv n‡q‡Q, Zv‡K wnRve ev c`©v ejv nq|

(Avj gyÔRvgyj IqvmxZ, 1g L-, 156 c…ôv)

Be‡b RvIhxi ‡_‡K ewY©Z, Bgvg Avng` (i.) e‡j‡Qb, bvix‡`i c«Kvk¨ ‡mŠ›`h© nj Kvco Avi bvix‡`i kix‡ii mewKQy GgbwK bLI c`©vi Aš—©fy³| (hv`yj gvmxi 6/31)

G ‡_‡K mn‡RB Aby‡gq Avgv‡`i c`©v ‡Kgb nIqv DwPr!

ÒAvi ‡Zvgiv Zvui (ivm~jyjøvn mvjøvjøvû AvjvBwnIqvmvjøvg)-Gi ¯¿xM‡Yi Kv‡Q wKQy PvB‡j c`©vi Avovj ‡_‡K PvB‡e| GUv ‡Zvgv‡`i Aš—‡ii Rb¨ Ges Zvu‡`i Aš—‡ii Rb¨ AwaKZi cweÎZvi KviY| (m~iv Avnhve-53)

GB Avqv‡Z c«gvY nq ivm~j (mvt) ¯¿xMY I Mvq‡i gvnivg ‡_‡K c`©v Ki‡Zb!

Av‡qkv ivt ‡_‡K ewY©Z, "Avwg hLb Nywg‡q wQjvg ZLb mdIqvb Be‡b gyqvËvj Avgv‡K ‡`‡L wP‡b ‡djj|

‡Kbbv ‡m Avgv‡K wnRv‡ee ûKyg nIqvi Av‡M ‡`‡LwQj|

ZLb ‡m Bbœvwjjøvn e‡j DVj, Avwg Zvi Bbœvwjjøvn ejvi k‡ã Avwg ‡R‡M DwV ZLb Avwg Iobv w`‡q Avgvi gyL ‡X‡K ‡dwj|"

(mnxn eyLvix 5/320,mnxn gymwjg nvw`m 2770,Rv‡g wZiwghx nvw`m 3179)

GB nvw`m wUI AKvU¨ `wjj!

D¤§yj gywgbxb D‡¤§ mvjgv (ivt) eY©bv K‡ib, Avwg Ges gvBgybv (ivt) ivm~j (mvt) Gi Kv‡Q Dcw¯’Z wQjvg,

G mgq AÜ mvnvex Be‡b D‡¤§ gvLZyg (ivt) ‡mLv‡b Avm‡Z jvM‡jb,

ZLb ivm~j (mvt) ej‡jb ‡Zvgiv c`©v K‡iv,Avov‡j P‡j hvI,

Avwg ejjvg Bqv ivm~jyjøvn! wZwb ‡Zv AÜ,Avgv‡`i ‡`L‡Z cv‡”Qb bv,

ZLb ivm~j (mvt) ej‡jb ‡ZvgivI wK AÜ? ‡Zvgiv wK Zv‡K ‡`L‡Z cv‡”Qv bv? -(Avey `vD`t2/568)

`ywbqvq _vKv Kv‡jB whwb Rvbœv‡Zi m`©vibx nIqvi mymsev` ‡c‡qwQ‡jb ‡mB LvZy‡b RvbœvZ gv dvwZgv (ivt) Gi c`©vi K‡VviZv ‡`‡L AevK bv n‡q cviv hvqbv!!

g…Z¨yi c~‡e©B wZwb e‡j ‡M‡Qb -

"Avgv‡K ‡hb iv‡Zi Avuav‡i `vdb Kiv nq,Kvib Avwg PvBbv w`‡bi Av‡jv‡Z Avgvi kix‡ii ‰`N©-c«¯’ ‡KD ‡`LyK!"

nhiZ Av‡qkv (ivt) ‡_‡K ewY©Z,

Avwg Avgvi ‡m N‡i c«‡ek KiZvg ‡hLv‡b ivm~j (mvt) ï‡q Av‡Qb,

ZLb Avwg Avgvi eo Pv`i Ly‡j ivLZvg Avi fveZvg Bwb n‡jb Avgvi ¯^vgx Avi AciRb Avgvi wcZv|

c‡i hLb nhiZ Dgi (ivt) ‡K GB N‡i `vdb Kiv nj, Avjøvni Kmg Avwg KL‡bv cy‡iv kixi Kvc‡o bv ‡X‡K ‡mLv‡b c«‡ek Kwiwb Dgi (ivt) ‡K j¾v Kivi Ki‡b| -(gymbv‡` Avngv`,wgkKvZt1674)

g…Z e¨w³i mv‡_I ‡hLv‡b GZ K‡Vvi c`©v myZivs Avgv‡`i c`©v ‡Kgb nIqv DwPr Zv bv eySvi K_v bq!

bvix c`©vi mv‡_ evB‡i ‡ei n‡jI mv‡_ gvnivg cyi“l _vKv Ri“ix|

Avi `~‡i md‡ii ‡¶‡Î GwU GZUvB ¸i“Z¡c~Y© ‡h nvw`‡m gvnivg cyi“l Qvov bvix ‡K ‡ei n‡ZB wb‡la Kiv n‡q‡Q!

Avey ûivqiv (ivt) ‡_‡K ewY©Z, ivm~j (mvt) e‡j‡Qb,

"gnvb Avjøvn I ‡kl w`e‡mi c«wZ ‡h bvix Cgvb iv‡L,Zvi gvniv‡gi m½ Qvov GKvwKbx GK w`b I GK iv‡Zi `~iZ¡ mdi Kiv ‰ea bq|"

(eyLvixt1088,gymwjgt1339, wZiwghxt1070, Avey `vD`t1723,Be‡b gvRvt2899)

‡jLK: gydZx gynv. iwdKzj Bmjvg

‡ck Bgvg: gmwR‡` gybvIqvi Gwjd¨v›U †ivW XvKv|